Breaking Free from the Need-Greed Loop: Shifting Your Mindset for Real Estate Success

Breaking Free from the Need-Greed Loop

Have you ever found yourself feeling like no matter how hard you work, there’s just not enough? Not enough time, not enough money, not enough opportunity. When we’re in that mindset—when we feel like we’re in a state of need—greed can become the strongest emotion guiding our actions. It’s human nature, but it can be destructive if left unchecked.

A friend of mine once took a tour of an aquarium in Honolulu. During the tour, the guide asked the group which species in the tank they thought was the most dangerous at feeding time. Naturally, everyone said the shark.

But the answer wasn’t the shark.

It was the giant snapping turtle. Why?

Because the turtle’s brain is so small and primitive that it doesn’t recognize there’s enough food to go around. It becomes aggressive, even biting the hand that’s literally feeding it. The turtle’s overwhelming sense of need transforms into greed, blinding it to the abundance surrounding it.

This is the need-greed loop in action.

The Need-Greed Trap

When you don’t believe you’re getting your fair share, the need-greed loop can take over, clouding your judgment and blinding you to opportunities all around.

In a state of need, you might find yourself making desperate decisions. And while tough times can certainly spark creative solutions and innovations, you have to tune your mind correctly to harness that potential. How? By taking full responsibility for your current circumstances.

Instead of thinking, "It's someone else’s fault I’m in this situation," or, "I deserve a handout," shift your mindset.

Shift Your Thinking

I recently heard a speaker say that our ability to solve problems directly impacts our overall happiness. The more effective we become at solving problems, the better we feel about our circumstances. So, if you’ve got problems—great! Learn to solve them.

When you become a problem solver, you become more attractive to the things you want in life. You start to pull opportunities toward you.

This mindset is crucial for success, especially in real estate and investing. Whether you’re buying your first home or exploring real estate investments, you need to approach these opportunities from a position of abundance, not scarcity. The housing market is filled with chances to grow wealth, but desperate decisions made from need can lead to costly mistakes.

Build from Abundance, Not Lack

Start by taking full inventory of where you are and what you have. You probably have more tools and resources at your disposal than you initially thought. From there, build a plan—a wealth plan, a health plan, a relationship plan. If you’re interested in real estate investing, for example, create a clear strategy for how to grow your portfolio. Set goals from a place of desire and power, not from a place of need.

Living in the need-greed loop hands your power over to others, just like the snapping turtle. But you don’t have to be the turtle in the tank, fighting for scraps. Instead, be the shark who knows there’s enough and takes calculated aim for what they truly want.

Push vs. Pull

Need is a push—it pushes you into desperation, into poor decisions, and into survival mode.

Desire is a pull—it pulls you forward, it pulls people toward you, and it pulls opportunity into your orbit.

So, break free from the need-greed loop. Trust in abundance, set your goals with clarity, and start pulling your dreams toward you. Whether you’re aiming for personal growth or diving into real estate investments, remember: the world has more than enough. Claim your share by becoming the person who knows it.

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~ Chris Story